Frequently asked questions

Everything families ask us before they start.

Straight answers about preplanning, prepaying, cremation, veteran benefits, and what it all costs. Don't see your question? Ask a local professional directly — it's free.


What is funeral preplanning?

Funeral preplanning is a popular way for families to have their wishes in place so that when the time comes, it's easier for survivors to manage the arrangements. This can be done independently or, more commonly, through a funeral home.

Why should I preplan my funeral?

Preplanning saves your family from the emotional and financial burden of making major decisions in a short time while grieving. Having your wishes written out in advance helps everyone avoid that pressure.

What is the difference between preplanning and prepaying?

Preplanning means making your funeral wishes and service preferences known ahead of time. Prepaying means funding those arrangements in advance, often through a funeral trust, insurance policy, or payment plan.

How much does a prepaid funeral plan cost?

Cost depends on the services selected — burial, cremation, merchandise, transportation, and memorial options. Many funeral homes offer flexible plans. A typical cremation runs around $3,000 and a typical burial around $10,000.

Can I make monthly payments for funeral preplanning?

Yes — many funeral homes offer monthly payment plans that spread the cost over time. Be aware that plans funded through insurance often include a cost of coverage, which protects against an early passing but increases the total cost.

What can be included in a preplanned funeral?

Visitation, funeral ceremonies, cremation or burial, transportation, clergy or celebrant services, flowers, music, obituary assistance, memorial products, and more.

I don't want burial — I want cremation. Is that an option?

Yes. Cremation is a great option for many families and does not require burial of remains.

What if I don't own cemetery property?

That's not a problem — funeral arrangements are independent of cemetery arrangements. Let your family and funeral home know your wishes before purchasing a cemetery plot.

Do I need to purchase cemetery property if I want to be cremated?

Not at all. There's no federal requirement to purchase cemetery property. Most families choose a cremation plot, keep the cremated remains at home, or scatter the remains.

Where can I spread cremated remains?

Each state has its own guidelines. Private property is typically allowed with permission, while state and national parks usually require a permit. This is best confirmed with a funeral professional in your state.

What happens if I move to another state after preplanning?

Most plans can be transferred or adjusted depending on the funeral provider and funding method. Your funeral home can explain portability options before you finalize arrangements.

Are prepaid funeral funds refundable or transferable?

Policies vary by state and provider. Some plans are refundable, while others are transferable to another funeral home if you relocate.

What documents are needed to preplan a funeral?

Typically basic personal information, emergency contacts, and payment information. It's also helpful to have military discharge papers, insurance policies, or estate documents on hand if applicable.

Can I change my funeral plans later?

Yes. Most preplans can be updated as your wishes, family circumstances, or financial situation change. Note that changes may come with a price adjustment.

Does funeral preplanning protect against rising funeral costs?

Yes — prepaid funeral plans help lock in today's prices, which can reduce the financial impact of future inflation on funeral expenses.

Can I preplan a funeral for my parents or spouse?

Yes. Many families help parents, spouses, or loved ones make arrangements together so everyone's wishes are clearly documented. Most insurance providers allow someone with an insurable interest to purchase a plan for another person.

Are veterans eligible for funeral benefits?

Yes. Eligible veterans may qualify for benefits through the Department of Veterans Affairs, including cemetery space, a headstone or marker, an outer burial container, opening and closing costs, a flag, a presidential certificate, and military honors.

Can I include music, readings, or personal requests in my plan?

Absolutely — and it's encouraged. Funeral preplanning lets you personalize your service with favorite songs, scripture, readings, speakers, photos, themes, or family traditions.

How do I know my family will follow my wishes?

Your funeral home keeps your arrangements on file, and sharing copies with trusted family members helps ensure your wishes are honored. Getting everything in writing removes any doubt.

What happens if the funeral home closes or changes ownership?

Funeral preplanning is typically funded through insurance or trusts. These third parties protect your funds even if a funeral home eventually closes or changes hands.

Is funeral preplanning tax deductible?

Generally, funeral expenses are not tax deductible for individuals, though certain estate-related situations may qualify. Consult a tax professional for guidance.

What is included in cremation preplanning?

Transportation, permits, cremation services, memorial ceremonies, urn selection, obituary assistance, and final disposition preferences.

How long does the funeral preplanning process take?

Most appointments take between 30 minutes and two hours, depending on how detailed your arrangements are and whether funding options are discussed.

Who should keep copies of my preplanning documents?

Keep copies in a safe place and give copies to trusted family members, executors, or anyone responsible for carrying out your final wishes.

How do I get started with funeral preplanning?

Schedule a conversation with a funeral preplanning professional to discuss your wishes, explore your options, and build a plan that fits your needs and budget — starting with the form below.

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